Comments on: UPDATED (9/23): Americans Importing Black Babies https://barelyablog.com/americans-importing-black-babies/ by ilana mercer Wed, 02 Apr 2025 19:29:09 +0000 hourly 1 By: WendyG https://barelyablog.com/americans-importing-black-babies/comment-page-1/#comment-25448 Mon, 05 Oct 2020 01:32:29 +0000 http://barelyablog.com/?p=148558#comment-25448 People adopt from overseas because there’s virtually no chance of any of the child’s biological family members attempting to make contact, and in some cases, overturning the adoption altogether.

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By: Ali S. https://barelyablog.com/americans-importing-black-babies/comment-page-1/#comment-25438 Mon, 28 Sep 2020 11:27:05 +0000 http://barelyablog.com/?p=148558#comment-25438 I can’t get over how Madonna resembles the late Joan Crawford in this photo with the contorted kid (a prop).

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By: Musil Protege https://barelyablog.com/americans-importing-black-babies/comment-page-1/#comment-25435 Fri, 25 Sep 2020 21:19:12 +0000 http://barelyablog.com/?p=148558#comment-25435 Anyone with a passing familiarity with 19th Century English novels will probably remember Mrs Jellyby from Bleak House (Dickens’s best?), the telescopic philanthropist who neglected her children to the point of starvation in her concern for a tribe in Africa. Our modern do-gooder divas are worthy of an epithet every bit as ridiculous as that silly woman’s surname, maybe Jellyby’s Jezebels, something like that. Except that would be an insult to Mrs J. For one thing, Mrs Jellyby was fictional; for another, she wasn’t an importer.

Who was it, Aquinas maybe, who (channeling Aristotle, no doubt) first deduced that charity begins at home (on balance, one of your better cliches). With home as its epicenter, charity moves concentrically outward, depending on how much discretionary cash you have on hand, and your inclination to be charitable. Is that not self evident?

Have a family? Take care of them, make sure they don’t need for anything. Friends in need, friends in bad health, dire financial straits? Show them you’re a real friend. Everything good in your neighborhood? How about the family with the old beater in the driveway and cardboarded windows? The old guy in the wheelchair bringing home dog food from the store when he doesn’t own a dog? Maybe go see how they’re doing. Surrounded by health and happiness and still have money to burn? Maybe cut a check to the community food bank, the one run by the hard-headed pragmatist, the guy who knows who truly can’t help his homelessness and the one who‘s essentially healthy and more or less would rather be on an endless campout than working on the loading dock (you laugh, but we have our share of that species in our city, verified). And so on.

And there’s nothing virtuous about feeling charitable at the voting booth, when you’re doling out other people’s money. But you knew that.

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By: I Gaddis https://barelyablog.com/americans-importing-black-babies/comment-page-1/#comment-25428 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 11:49:12 +0000 http://barelyablog.com/?p=148558#comment-25428 Just be happy these kids had a chance to get out of poverty and be loved. Are they abusing or hurting them… No

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