Comments on: Letter of the Week: My Daughter Weighs In On Hornbeck https://barelyablog.com/letter-of-the-week-my-daughter-weighs-in-on-hornbeck/ by ilana mercer Wed, 02 Apr 2025 19:29:09 +0000 hourly 1 By: Stephen W. Browne https://barelyablog.com/letter-of-the-week-my-daughter-weighs-in-on-hornbeck/comment-page-1/#comment-1647 Sun, 04 Feb 2007 15:02:15 +0000 http://blog.ilanamercer.com/?p=387#comment-1647 My son is five now, and my wife and I have devoted some thought as to how to prepare someone that young for a range of horrible possibilities. (We had a bit of a scare two years ago when we both got a touch of food poisoning and had the grisly thought of what would have happened to him if he’d been locked in the house with two dead parents.)

About abduction attempts, Monika told him that if a stranger tried to take him into a car, he could use all the bad words we don’t let him say, as loud as he can.

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By: Dan Maguire https://barelyablog.com/letter-of-the-week-my-daughter-weighs-in-on-hornbeck/comment-page-1/#comment-1631 Sat, 03 Feb 2007 19:44:20 +0000 http://blog.ilanamercer.com/?p=387#comment-1631 I was reading the responses to the most recent article, trying to find a way to play devil’s advocate against my position (my position is that Hornbeck could have easily made his escape; he just didn’t want to go home).

So here’s the only way I can argue against my own position:

* after his initial abduction, he was held in isolation for a prolonged period, tortured, drugged, sensory deprived, to the point he became brainwashed.
* uh, that’s it.

[Sure. Very fair. But if you go back to both my articles, all I asked for was an e-mail, a word to the cops that gave him rides home, something small, really.]

Even here I find my devil’s advocate unconvincing. Hornbeck was gone four years. As Ilana points out, other children have been through equivalent abuse for similar periods and acted differently.

Yes, it’s true, I have never been kidnapped and abused, and faced with this hypothetical prolonged torture, I don’t know how I’d respond. I’d like to think I’d run if I had a chance. I’d like to think I wouldn’t have made my parents suffer.

Ilana’s daughter: your take on American schools is right on. I don’t know how it is that our schools are so pathetic, but they are. (In spite of this fact, I continue to support a free education for all children – there’s gotta be a way to have access to education without making the education worthless.) Glad you made it out OK.

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